* 20 Ways to Save Money - how one family saved over $10,000 * If We Had It To Do Over - couples and parents say what they would have done differently. * Wedding Day Emergency Kit - don't leave home without it! * The Big Day Stress Reducers - better than aspirin! * Who Pays for What: Traditionally - a good starting point. * 15 Lists of Questions to Ask Vendors * Stress Reducer "Mindsets" for Couples and Parents * Bonus Stress Reducer: Destination Weddings * Special Report: Booking Vendors in the Wedding Explosion Age "This is a great gift for family and friends. I plan to buy copies for every couple and their parents as they announce their engagements!" Marilyn (NY) mother of the groom |
........ | Are you anxious about dealing with these common wedding planning stressors? -- Controlling Behavior -- Refusal to Compromise -- Difficult Personalities -- Constant Stress and Conflict -- Exes and Step Family Issues -- Complicated Relationships -- Problems Without Apparent Solutions It's no surprise that 96% of brides freak out about planning their weddings and 86% say that family conflict is the main reason.* What should be a joyful experience can easily turn exasperating and frustrating. It doesn't have to be that way. Now you can reduce angst and have a load of fun planning your wedding! Based on personal experience, talking with couples, parents and wedding professionals, we'll show you how to nip arguments in the bud before they ever happen. Everyone can collaborate for the best possible Big Day and beyond! Designed to be a frequently used guidebook as specific situations arise, use the essential Wedding Survival Kit throughout your wedding planning process. 44 bite-size "Stress Reducers" and over 100 "anxiety alleviators" and hands-on ideas help you minimize conflicts in specific situations, by presenting points of view from both the couple and parents. Click to see examples: #23 Who Pays for What: The Wedding #3 "It's Our Wedding!" vs. "It's Our Money!" #13 You Want to Invite Who?&!@#$% "Something that I really enjoyed about the book is that it is from the perspective of parents who have actually lived and relived the planning process. I think the book hits on a lot of great points that a lot of people do not think about till it's too late. It was a great and informational read that I think rookie parent wedding planners will find very valuable." Kirsten (CA) former wedding planner, now planning her own wedding "I enjoyed the 'down to earth' comparisons that connects the authors to the reader in a relatable way. I also thought these< stress reducers were the biggest take away for anyone in the thick of planning now. Great to have in one location." Mandy (NJ) newlywed Two Special Family Profiles #1: An Exceptional Wedding Planning Experience Meet the Pitonyak family. No stress. No conflict. Easy peesy. Everyone's wishes carefully considered. No demands. No angst. Learn how they did it to ensure the Big Day would be special in every way possible! #2: Special Touches That Made This Wedding Extraordinary A special song written by mom and dad for the bride. Sung by a long-time family friend. The ceremony officiated by the bride's brother. The bride's birth family reunited for this celebration. Read what they did and how they did it! "EXCELLENT! EXCELLENT! There's so much to like in this book. You covered everything and plenty of things I didn't even think about. The key words for our three stress-free weddings were flexibility and compromise - you guys clearly embrace them. As a parent, all we want is for our children to have great memories of that day and be a part of it. People just don't know what they don't know. Situations that can't be worked out could lead to a lifetime of problems. But you all wrote a book that can help people avoid those pitfalls. I really appreciated you writing in the first section that you don't need to read this like a novel, more like a guidebook. It is so good - it really held my attention." Marilyn (CT) mother of two brides, one groom |