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Flare Calmer – Ear Plugs Alternative – Reduce Annoying Noises Without Blocking Sound – Soft Reusable Silicone - Grey
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Brand | FLARE AUDIO |
Color | Gray |
Material | Silicone |
Recommended Uses For Product | Sound Sensitivities |
Size | 1 Count (Pack of 1) |
About this item
- Silicone
- EARPLUG ALTERNATIVE | Worn comfortably in the ear, Calmer is an alternative to traditional earplugs. They reduce your stress response to annoying noises without blocking sound. Calmer will reduce noise related stress & sensory overwhelm without isolating you from sounds you want to hear.
- REDUCE STRESS | Calmer features a unique technology that reduces stressful frequencies without blocking sound. Calmer will make trigger sounds such as busy places, eating and chewing, electric buzz, traffic, cutlery, ticking/tapping and children less annoying and much more manageable.
- SUPER COMFORTABLE | Calmer is made from a safe, soft and durable silicone which is easy to clean. Calmer comes in four colours (Grey, Translucent, Purple, Mint). Its discreet design means you can wear Calmer without feeling self-conscious about having them in your ears. Calmer is completely hollow letting your ears breathe and preventing waxy build up.
- SOUND SENSITIVITY | Calmer helps anyone who experiences sound sensitivity but doesn’t want to feel isolated from the world. With Calmer, sound is accurately directed into our ears. This reduces our stress response and is particularly helpful for sensitive hearing and neurodivergent conditions including ADHD, autism, dyslexia and Misophonia.
- WHAT SIZE AM I? | Our standard size Calmer fits 90% of users. Only choose Mini if standard size earphones don’t fit when using the smallest tips. Calmer features patent pending technology and has also been independently tested by Institute of Sound and Vibration Research. Every pair of Calmer includes 1x Flare carry pouch, a handy user guide and is supplied in 100% recyclable packaging.
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What is Calmer
Calmer is a life-changing product worn in the ear that gently reduces hearing sensitivity without blocking sound or making you feel isolated.
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What size of Calmer do I need?
We generally find that most users (around 90%) get on with the standard size of Calmer, however if you have small ear canals or struggle with other in-ear devices we would recommend the mini size.
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How does Calmer work?
Calmer work by changing the internal shape of our ears. They are hollow so won't block volume like all other earplugs do. They simply make trigger sounds less annoying and much more manageable.
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Will Calmer reduce volume?
Calmer will not reduce the volume of sounds. They are completely hollow and allow sound to travel through but make stressful and trigger sounds less annoying whilst allowing you to hear the world around you.
Product details
- Product Dimensions : 0.39 x 0.51 x 0.79 inches; 0.02 ounces
- Item model number : CAL-SI-GRY
- Department : womens
- Date First Available : October 1, 2020
- Manufacturer : Flare Audio
- ASIN : B08KHHVZWB
- Best Sellers Rank: #19,879 in Health & Household (See Top 100 in Health & Household)
- Customer Reviews:
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Literally taking these with me EVERYWHERE.
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These Flare ear plugs have help me so much!
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Love these earplugs -sound gets through but without the edge
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Calmer Fitting Instructions
Flare Audio Ltd (UK)
Important information
Ingredients
Silicone
Directions
To use Calmer, insert the silicone earplug alternative into the ear to reduce stressful frequencies without blocking sound.
Legal Disclaimer
All trademarks and designs are the property of Flare Audio Technologies. Calmer® is a registered trademark. Calmer also includes international patent pending technology (PCT/GB2021/050676, 2004011.9) and registered designs (6085879, 29/751611, 817786, 333460).
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Customers are satisfied with the headphones' performance. However, some find them overpriced for the materials and a waste of money. They also report issues with the headphones falling out. Opinions differ on noise reduction, functionality, comfort, fit, and ease of use.
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Customers find the headphones helpful in improving their quality of life. They say the headphones reduce self-consciousness and allow them to focus better. The headphones help dull the chaos of kids, toys, TVs, and reduce daily stress.
"...shameful (you aren't being overly dramatic), it definitely helps you to live a little and be more productive, it is needed, it is worth the price,..." Read more
"...They’re not very noticeable either...." Read more
"...It doesn’t eliminate it, but it does reduce the harshness of everything around me...." Read more
"...Then I tried the flare calmer. The do seem to work, but the reduction is subtle, maybe too subtle...." Read more
Customers have different views on the noise reduction. Some find it helps direct noise into their ears, making it easier to function in noisy environments like homes. Others feel it muffles high-frequency ambient noises and extreme inputs, which can be annoying. There are also reports of a slight ringing in the ears and a feeling of reverberation around the head.
"...I feel as though I am able to function better in my noisy home, whereas before I was knowingly and frequently running away from noise...." Read more
"...First, the concept of reducing stress by dampening certain frequencies without blocking overall sound is appealing, especially in busy settings or..." Read more
"...Everything is just noise, at the same level, all the time. If someone is talking on my left, I can't hear it over whatever is happening on my right...." Read more
"...the ear canal in general, and this also has the effect of making hearing slightly more directional without amplifying in the way something like an..." Read more
Customers have mixed opinions about the headphones' functionality. Some find them effective for reducing sound harshness and countering sensory overload. Others mention that the product did not work as advertised, muffled all sounds, or was not properly used.
"...to the hearing side, and when in harmony, it works just well enough to make life bearable...." Read more
"...They do not work in every situation and don't expect any noise cancelling" Read more
"...These are a shockingly effective tool to counter sensory overwhelm, so I guess I shouldn't have been so skeptical of sticking rubber tubes in my ear." Read more
"...So, one star off for limited effectiveness (for me--I hope they work even better for you), and another star off because I think these little devices..." Read more
Customers have different views on the comfort of the headphones. Some find them very comfortable, staying in place all day, with well-seated plugs that don't get loose. Others mention that they cause pain in their ears and block out too much sound.
"...While the material of the Calmer is soft and seems durable, and the translucent design is discreet, the discomfort from the poor fit made them less..." Read more
"...Worse, the plastic is rather hard and uncomfortable for me, especially during insertion...." Read more
"...I’m told I have pretty small ears, and these are comfortable for me...." Read more
"...fot perfect and the other was always.... Just slightly off, and caused pain, but i think it's because i am right handed and put the one in my left..." Read more
Customers have varying experiences with the fit of the headphones. Some find them comfortable and forget they're in, while others find the regular size too small or too big to sit comfortably in their ears. The included pouch closes securely with the drawstring cinch lock.
"...or walking can dislodge this thing because it needs to be redesigned to fit better. It won't fall completely out...." Read more
"...Outer Design Pros* They fit well, they are very discreet (in clear), their bag keeps them dry and clean...." Read more
"...They felt too small for my ears, which might indicate that the shape is slightly off for some users...." Read more
"...sure the Mini Pro would be the size I needed but they're honestly too small...." Read more
Customers have different experiences with the headphones. Some find them easy to insert and comfortable, making sounds less overwhelming. Others say they're complicated to put in and hard to adjust to, with confusing instructions.
"...They are kind of awkward to put in and feel like they are ready to fall out easily...." Read more
"...The bag is easy to recognize by touch if you have it in a laptop bag with other stuff. *Technical Design Pros*..." Read more
"...A couple of negatives: it can be tricky to get them seated correctly...." Read more
"...They’re really not very noticeable anyway. They’re super easy to put in and take out...." Read more
Customers are unhappy with the headphones' value for money. They say the headphones are overpriced for the material and made of inexpensive materials. Some feel the product is a waste of money and uninteresting.
"...thing I've tried (also tried loops) and I think it's an overpriced piece of rubber...." Read more
"...I would suggest looking at alternatives before buying this overly expensive and poorly designed product." Read more
"...you to live a little and be more productive, it is needed, it is worth the price, and it opens up space to be happier...." Read more
"...I really do think these help. When you get them, they seem kind of... unexciting...." Read more
Customers find that the headphones constantly slip out of their ears, especially when eating or talking. They only stay in place when their head is still. The headphones tend to get loose after a while and need frequent repositioning. Some reviewers mention that the headphones would pop out of their bag when digging around for them.
"...- Lastly, the bummer of this device: it doesn't stay in place. I bought the standard size, not the mini...." Read more
"...Because of this, they didn't stay securely in place, which could be why they didn't perform as well as expected...." Read more
"...They are kind of awkward to put in and feel like they are ready to fall out easily...." Read more
"...I'm chewing or if I'm singing for a long period of time, they do start to get loose, especially if I didn't have them well seated in the first place...." Read more
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At first I wasn't sure....but WOW. I'll never go without these again!
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- Reviewed in the United States on November 17, 2024Color: TransluscentSize: 1 Pair (Pack of one)Verified Purchase*Reason for buying*
I had read about Calmers as a potential accommodation tool for people with autism and general sensory/perceptual sensitivities (which I have).
*Outer Design Pros*
They fit well, they are very discreet (in clear), their bag keeps them dry and clean. The bag is easy to recognize by touch if you have it in a laptop bag with other stuff.
*Technical Design Pros*
Some people have said that, after the 24h test, they took the Calmers out in noisy environments and immediately noticed the Calmers had been making a difference, because they became more anxious and irritable. I do not notice such a shift (which is a plus because it seems that wearing the Calmers a lot doesn't further lower your tolerance to sound). On whether it works for me- I can easily notice that mid to high pitched sounds are, indeed, muffled. Low pitch sound is unaffected, and I can still hear mids to highs pretty well. There is seemingly no decibel difference, just pitch. So, Flare is legit on those claims. Again, I haven't felt a distinct shift when I put them in or take them out. However, I have been far less anxious, irritable, and overwhelmed since I started to wear them (real result, placebo, or other cause- I don't know, but I'm sticking with it). Also, I can tolerate close proximity to very harsh noises like vacuuming (never could achieve this before). I feel as though I am able to function better in my noisy home, whereas before I was knowingly and frequently running away from noise. Noise can still be annoying sometimes, but it just seems more tolerable/manageable.
*How/When I Wear Them*
I place the Calmers in my ear as directed (logo/projection side facing the back of your head, not super far into your ear). They really don't work otherwise, so be sure to do that. I just put them in before any louder noises I expect to occur and/or that I suspect or know stress me out. So, for example, I will put them in when my family is settling down to watch TV. I haven't tried the Calmers at a noisy restaurant or public space yet. I so far didn't feel I needed them at those places, but I'm sure they will help there. I also reach for them if there is a louder noise in my environment and I notice that I am irritated or have a headache in the back of my head/neck (I learned recently that these headaches are often from overstimulation). The noise may not be the cause, but who knows? I grab my Calmers anyway.
*Technical Design "Cons"*
Nothing is a real con for me. I do notice some weirdness to my voice when I wear the Calmers. People call it "echoing" but it just sounds a bit muffled and low to me. Nothing bothersome over time, though. It can also be a bit harder to hear people. This was all expected, especially due to the range at which I and other people speak (mids I guess). You also can't wear earbuds for music with them, so headphones are good, or I just take them out. I originally wanted colored Calmers for fun (I don't actually like boring and discreet items), but I found the available colors to be ugly, and I see that the clear ones are actually a great choice. So, Flare could make nicer colors, but it's not that important. I am guessing that I can't wear my tragus piercing without affecting the Calmers' performance (haven't tried, they are bendy but it might still affect things). That's fine, as I'd rather wear the Calmers most of the time. It's not a problem existing for most potential buyers anyway, but I wanted to note that.
*Overall*
I love the Calmers, and I think the price is fair for the materials used and how they have helped and will help me. I would definitely suggest splurging on accommodating yourself (I know Calmers are not that expensive, but I was still dragging my feet to buy them). Accommodating yourself in health is not shameful (you aren't being overly dramatic), it definitely helps you to live a little and be more productive, it is needed, it is worth the price, and it opens up space to be happier. 10/10 great tool for sensory sensitivity.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 14, 2021Color: GraySize: 1 Count (Pack of 1)Verified PurchaseI wanted to allow myself time to get used to these before reviewing it. I have sudden hearing loss on one side, which has been mostly a nightmare. People think it's not a big deal, but we were born with two ears because we need both of them to function properly. Since losing half my hearing, I have no more balance, no center. Unless you're half deaf, you just don't realize how much you lose when you only hear on one side. I can't tell which direction the noise comes from or how far away. Everything is just noise, at the same level, all the time. If someone is talking on my left, I can't hear it over whatever is happening on my right. When someone calls my name from a distance, I have no idea of knowing where they are unless I see them. This is dangerous in some situations because sometimes the sounds I don't hear are cars, and thankfully I have a dog who warns me before something like that can happen. At some point, it's just stimulation overload and I get migraines, dizziness, vertigo, etc, and I just stay home. What I'm trying to say is I have been looking for something to make sounds more bearable, and I think I finally found it in Flare Audio's Calmer. So with all that in mind, here's what I think of it:
- It does what it claims. When in place, sounds no longer sound like one big sheet of noise. It's like the difference between using your TV's stereo and upgrading to a home theater. Sounds sound more layered, like I'm finally hearing them as I should before only being able to hear on one side. I still hear on one side, but the sounds seem more organized.
- I don't know how much it helps with tinnitus, but I have tinnitus, and if there is an improvement, it's subtle. But I'll give that more time. After all, some ongoing problems won't go away instantly, so expectations have to be realistic.
- Sounds seem crisper. I feel like I'm hearing things I missed previously.
- I have a bone-anchored hearing aid on my deaf side, though it doesn't work very well. A bone-anchored hearing aid (BAHA) is one of the ways the deaf can hear again, using bone conduction to allow sound to travel from the deaf side to the hearing side. The idea is to allow your brain to feel like you're hearing on both ears, but really all the sound is just traveling to the hearing side, and when in harmony, it works just well enough to make life bearable. In reality, it's far from ideal, and the device was almost useless to me. But with Calmer in my hearing ear, it helps the sound from my hearing aid become more focused because it eliminated a lot of white noise and just lets me hear more efficiently. It's truly wonderful, and I almost cried because it's been a few years since being able to hear with that much quality. It's not perfect, but it's the best I can hope for with one functioning ear. That's my honest testament to this device.
- Lastly, the bummer of this device: it doesn't stay in place. I bought the standard size, not the mini. If you're not sure which size to get, get the standard. Unless you know you have smaller ear canals (you will have known that by now because any doctor would have mentioned it), it's best to get the standard. But it is easily dislodged. I don't have a very active lifestyle anymore, so I don't do things that would cause it to be dislodged, but it always happens. A regular activity like having a conversation or walking can dislodge this thing because it needs to be redesigned to fit better. It won't fall completely out. Between your tragus and antitragus, you'll feel something different and touch your ear and realize the device is resting there, instead of in its place. I don't have super waxy ears and that's the only thing I can think of that could cause the device to keep dislodging. I just think it's a design flaw.
So, when the device is in place, it's wonderful. The design needs to be reconfigured to not fall out so easily, but otherwise, what a great idea. It's a game-changer and I'm so glad I got it. As with anything you put in your ear, be careful, educate yourself, and even talk to your audiologist. But this is a great product. If it was on Shark Tank, I think the panel would go for it. The company's website has more products as well, and it's worth looking into. Good luck!
Top reviews from other countries
- Zi KeiReviewed in Canada on March 25, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars works as advertised, helpful for auditory processing difficulties
Color: TransluscentSize: 1 Pair (Pack of one)Verified PurchaseI love my calmers and always make sure I have a spare pair at any time.
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it works like it says it should.
calmers reduces the uncomfortable frequencies / abrasiveness of sounds, making them more gentle without impact on the actual sound / volume - i'm not looking to live life with all auditory input reduced / made blurrier, i just want to be less bothered by them.
i find it most helpful for neutralising what I personally call "white noise" / static - sounds like the fan whirring, fridge humming, shower water splashing, etc. - it really takes the edge off and make everything sound clearer / less piercing / noticeable.
it's a very subtle difference, and I honestly can't say how much it helps with sensory processing directly, but indirectly it does. I don't notice any "improvement" to my hearing when wearing this (it's no hearing aid), but the difference becomes apparent when I take out / put them in in an environment with the aforementioned "white noise" - eg. I stand in the bathroom with the shower running. if i take them out suddenly the splashing sounds become much louder / more abrasive / muddled, but when i put them back in, immediately a lot of the splashing and crashing quiets and instead i hear a much clearer water-running sound without all the surrounding static.
its no miracle product, but it makes many sounds that bother those of us with sensory processing issues much more manageable / less stressful. I find it helpful for focus / concentration since there is much less distraction through background sounds that no one else can even hear. it the same vein it helps (though to a lesser degree) with hearing people talk - words can be hard to catch, esp. with peripheral buzz in the way - when background noise is toned down, it indirectly helps with hearing speech specifically.
one of the best features is it's simplistic design - lightweight, small, plain silicone - the hole is the key part in making calmers my fave / only real option.
I wear my calmers literally 24/7 (including in the shower / to bed / anywhere), only taking them off to clean them & my ears. they're very comfortable - i literally can't feel them, they never hurt, i forget I'm even wearing them.
I've tried other products marketed similarly, like loop / loop-like alternatives / acoustic earplugs, etc. but ultimately it's impossible to wear actual plugs in your ears for extended periods without your ears getting real gross.
Plus you will always feel them, and no matter what they will unavoidably dampen / distort sound.
main downside is that I have long ago stopped counting how many of these i've lost... not really something that can be fixed other than buying their strapped version. the little pouch provided is v helpful for on-the-go when I need to take them out to wear earphones for music.
secondly, they are small and the transparent ones are minimally noticeable, but ultimately there will always be people who notice that you have something in your ear. but if you are looking for this type of product, this is by far the best option on the market for wearing day-to-day without people thinking you have a plug / hearing aid in.
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ROSARIO ARIZAGAReviewed in Mexico on October 2, 2023
4.0 out of 5 stars cumplen su funcion
Color: MintSize: 1 Count (Pack of 1)Verified PurchaseTodo bien
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Claudia Ivonne Villagrán GonzálezReviewed in Mexico on July 18, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars Feliz
Color: GraySize: 1 Count (Pack of 1)Verified PurchaseNo aguantaba mucho en las fiestas o lugares con mucho ruido. Estos audífonos me ayudaron mucho. Ya no tengo mal humor cuando hay mucho ruido y aún puedo escuchar a la gente
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RrenteriaReviewed in Mexico on April 12, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars Excelente resultado, pero el precio muy alto
Color: TransluscentSize: 1 Pair (Pack of one)Verified PurchaseHe usado por tres meses este producto, han sido de mucha ayuda para reducir el ruido y la fatiga de mis oídos, al punto que ya no me siento cómodo sin ellos, sin embargo, son tan simples en el material y diseño que me parece en exceso caros, pague $600 pesos mx por ellos. Conclusión, los volvería a comprar pero me deja con la sensación de que me están robando, pero no hay opción.
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PatReviewed in Brazil on November 27, 2022
1.0 out of 5 stars Não muda nada
Color: GraySize: 1 Count (Pack of 1)Verified PurchaseNão muda nada escuto toooodos os barulhos do mesmo jeito, encaixa mal, pesquisem mais antes de comprar, não façam como eu, é pura propaganda enganosa, se pudesse devolveria :(
Um ear plug de silicone da 3m custa 30 reais e ajuda muito mais :/
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