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A Curious History of Sex Hardcover – April 14, 2020
This is not a comprehensive study of every sexual quirk, kink and ritual across all cultures throughout time, as that would entail writing an encyclopaedia. Rather, this is a drop in the ocean, a paddle in the shallow end of sex history, but I hope you will get pleasantly wet nonetheless.
The act of sex has not changed since people first worked out what went where, but the ways in which society dictates how sex is culturally understood and performed have varied significantly through the ages. Humans are the only creatures that stigmatise particular sexual practices, and sex remains a deeply divisive issue around the world. Attitudes will change and grow – hopefully for the better – but sex will never be free of stigma or shame unless we acknowledge where it has come from.
Drawing upon extensive research from Dr Kate Lister’s Whores of Yore website and written with her distinctive humour and wit, A Curious History of Sex covers topics ranging from twentieth- century testicle thefts to Victorian doctors massaging the pelvises of their female patients, from smutty bread innuendos dating back to AD 79, to the new and controversial sex doll brothels. It is peppered with surprising and informative historical slang and illustrated by eye-opening, toe- curling and hilarious images.
In this fascinating book, Lister deftly debunks myths and stereotypes and gives unusual sexual practices an historical framework, as she provides valuable context for issues facing people today, including gender, sexual shame, beauty and language.
- Print length384 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherUnbound
- Publication dateApril 14, 2020
- Dimensions6.25 x 1.5 x 9.5 inches
- ISBN-101783528052
- ISBN-13978-1783528059
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"[Lister] distills her encyclopedic knowledge and years of research into a gloriously raunchy yet informative read. From masturbating medieval gargoyles, to Victorian bicycle porn, to the etymology of the ‘c-word,’ the book shows us all of the ways in which there is nothing new when it comes to sex." — New York Magazine
"Buckle your trousers, fasten your seatbelts, here comes Kate Lister. Her curious history of sex is a wild ride, made all the more enjoyable by a wonderfully irreverent approach . . . I’ve never had so much fun learning stuff." — The Times
"A wonderful cornucopia of deviance and desire." — The Times books of the year
"Had Victoria Wood decided to write a scholarly book about sex, it would be like this. Lister has a saucy wit . . . I laughed out loud." — Daily Mail
"Lister romps her way through masturbation, menstruation and prostitution, the invention of condoms, the use of vibrators to cure hysteria and much more . . . Glorious." — Evening Standard
"An anecdote-rich chronicle that uncovers layer on layer of oppression . . . vivid and playful." — Guardian
"A riot to read." — New Statesman
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- Publisher : Unbound (April 14, 2020)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 384 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1783528052
- ISBN-13 : 978-1783528059
- Item Weight : 2.6 pounds
- Dimensions : 6.25 x 1.5 x 9.5 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,481,839 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #332 in Human Sexuality Studies
- #1,044 in Medical Psychology of Sexuality
- #1,726 in Psychology & Counseling Books on Sexuality
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- Reviewed in the United States on February 3, 2025Well written and well researched overview of a very broad subject. She handles it with dignity and care while discussing a wide variety of acts and extensively footnotes her research.
- Reviewed in the United States on October 8, 2020This book delivers for the reader who seeks to be diverted. Lister has done exhaustive research ferreting out exotic and unusual facts about nearly every conceivable aspect of sexuality. It's fun and it it serves to keep us from taking sex too seriously. She delivers the material with humor rather than prurience. (I find it difficult to imagine anyone reading it as erotica in order to get stimulated, when porn is free and easily fills that need.)
As a psychiatrist, I can see it being helpful for seeing our attitudes and judgments set in a historical context and she covers a vast amount of territory without going deeply into any one culture or era. If one is particularly interested in how Christianity has dealt with sex over the millenia, a specialized book like Elaine Pagel's " Adam, Eve and the Serpent" would be more helpful.
And if one is conflicted about sex and wants direction, just be aware that this book is for entertainment, and does a good job with that limited goal.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 10, 2020Rarely have I read a book about sex with this much positivity, deeply researched data and excellent, easy to follow writing that doesn't veer into "dumbing it down for the masses" territory nevertheless.
Kate doesn't shy from taboo and difficult subjects, and her wonderful humor comes just in time to puncture the anger you might feel at some of the idiotic, unfair and dangerous practices and mores surrounding a subject that seems to cause most societies throughout the history - including ours - to lose their collective minds.
I happened to follow Kate on Twitter, entirely by accident of running into her widely and wildly popular titbits (teehee) on the same subject. When I heard her book has come out, I jumped on the chance to buy it, hoping she'll be as good and astute a writer in long form. I was not disappointed. What I love the most about her writing (with her personality and writing style a very close second), is that she always does her research and includes all her sources, so you, the reader, can fact check and learn more if you're so inclined.
In a field that's mostly handled in a sensationalist manner, with a nudge and a wink, this book is a clear and vibrant voice of sanity, an example to all how true scientific research should be done, and just a ton of fun!
- Reviewed in the United States on March 1, 2022DIscussing the attempts (universally, it seems, unreliable) to determine virginity, author Lister quotes an ancient expert writing that "the signs of chastity are as follows: shame, modesty, fear, a faultless gait and speech, casting eyes down before men and the acts of men." Then she adds, "[FYI, these are also signs she ordered and ate the Pizza Hut family feast on her own and is praying you don't find the evidence in the bin..]" Along with the nearly 100 pages of footnotes in this thoroughly researched book, there are another 350 pages with hundreds of astonishing facts on many subjects sexual, hilarious editorial comments, and copious, remarkable illustrations and photos. You won't want to read it aloud at Sunday dinner, but you'll surely want to share bits with pals. Kate Lister 's book is fascinating and entertaining, both scholarly and sassy.
- Reviewed in the United States on December 25, 2022The author wrote with just enough humor to keep the topics light but well researched. This read much faster than I expected but she admitted that this book isn’t comprehensive. I would highly recommend this book.
- Reviewed in the United States on February 17, 2024Love how she explains sex through a historical lens. A lot of things that are happening today havent change, everything is repeated but now we have a chance to really change it.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 14, 2021I bought this here only because the author does not ship to the US but omg this book is fantastic! Funny and informative. I 100% recommend
- Reviewed in the United States on January 19, 2023It’s full of interesting little tidbits of information and history of sexual customs. Most of it discusses the customs of Britain, especially the Victorian Age of the mid- to late 19th century and its preceding times. There are also discussions of the medical knowledge of reproduction of the eras. Some of what was thought at the time seems downright foolish today. Most of the medical treatises of the times were written by men; as might be expected, they were based mainly on preconceived (pardon the pun) notions.
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- Donald DanbyReviewed in Canada on April 6, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars So good
Could not put this book down. Well written and so interesting.
- andrea m de bertoldiReviewed in Italy on December 27, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Quite serious historical reconstruction
Quite serious historical reconstruction
- paddington bearReviewed in the United Kingdom on July 31, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Interesting
An interesting and informative historical thesis. Well researched and clearly presented with, make readable by lighter comments, some even personal. A good read.
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Peter SilieReviewed in Germany on July 24, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Sehr interessant und gut geschrieben...
Ich musste öfters mal schmunzeln...
- ElianneReviewed in Spain on November 9, 2020
5.0 out of 5 stars Loved it
This book is a great time. Humans are weird, sex is weird, and this book encapsulates that while giving us thoughtful critique of sexual mores AND maintaining that sex can be/is fun and hot. It's fun and informative and about sex, what more do you need. 10/10