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The Insight Cure: Change Your Story, Transform Your Life Hardcover – February 13, 2018
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Renowned psychiatrist and professor at Harvard Medical School John Sharp, M.D., offers an eight-step process to discovering your unconscious narrative and using your new insight to eradicate the "false truth" that has been at the core of your self-sabotage.
His unique approach integrates four core domains of applied psychology—control mastery theory, attachment theory, narrative therapy, and positive psychology—with his own research and professional experience to construct an insightful and soul-searching path to insight.
Throughout his step-by-step process, Dr.Sharp provides:
· The “Sharp Focus” to distill and emphasize important concepts
· Quizzes to help you analyze your internal and external tendencies
· “First Impressions” case studies from his professional practice
· Awareness, insight, change, and narrative tools to facilitate your transformation
· “Gut Checks” to help you figure out if you are ready to move on to the next step in the process
Dr. Sharp’s approach is simple and accessible, with the power to wield profound results. Through exercises, quizzes, thorough exploration of case studies, and clear guidance, you will be able to find your false truth, rewrite your story, and transform your life. Once you have flipped the switch of insight, nothing can hold back the light that shines from within.
- Print length272 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherHay House Inc.
- Publication dateFebruary 13, 2018
- Dimensions6.38 x 0.84 x 9.31 inches
- ISBN-101401953247
- ISBN-13978-1401953249
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— Sanjiv Chopra, M.D., professor of medicine at Harvard Medical School, best-selling author, and public speaker
"Mental health is an issue close to my heart. There is a staggering need for more information, education, and application of better mental health in America. We need more outstanding physicians who are smart and passionate, clever, and caring. Dr. John Sharp is one of those physicians. He tunes in to a patient’s unique individuality and guides the way to healing. Dr. Sharp stands out in his field as truly a ‘doctor’s doctor.’"
— Kristen Bell, actor, The Good Place, Veronica Mars, Frozen, and House of Lies
"In the 30 years I have known Dr. John Sharp, I have rarely encountered a colleague with his combination of insight, warmth, and creativity. Beyond his excellence in caring for the person, he brings to his work an astounding breadth of knowledge and wisdom, and his writing is practical and engaging."
— John. M. Talmadge, M.D., senior medical advisor, Brain Performance Institute at The Center for Brain Health, clinical professor of psychiatry & addiction medicine at the University of Texas Dallas
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In the 8 weeks since I’ve started this process, supported by Dr. Sharp’s warm guidance, I’ve learned so much about myself and my false story. I’ve also built a new empowering story about myself and life based on my own strengths. I can feel my insight deepening and my new story slowly taking over. I’ll update this at 6 months but for now I’m blown away by the brilliance and effectiveness of this teaching. Dr Sharp is a professor at Harvard medical school and it shows. He incorporates the insights of cognitive therapy, narrative therapy, positive psychology and Erik Erickson’s teachings on the development of identity in a way that flows seamlessly. I truly believe this book is destined to be a classic. I am deeply grateful to Dr. Sharp for writing this life changing book.
I am finding this book very insightful. Parallels Debbie Ford’s book on Shadow Stories.
Dr. Sharp maintains that every person has a story, a personal narrative that informs their life, their decisions, and their way of thinking. But did you know that it also affects the wiring of your brain?
Renowned psychiatrist and professor at Harvard Medical School John Sharp, M.D., offers an eight-step process to discovering your unconscious narrative and using your new insight to eradicate the “false truth” that has been at the core of your self-sabotage.
His unique approach integrates four core domains of applied psychology—control mastery theory, attachment theory, narrative therapy, and positive psychology—with his own research and professional experience to construct an insightful and soul-searching path to insight.
Dr. Sharp’s approach is simple and accessible, with the power to wield profound results. Through exercises, quizzes, thorough exploration of case studies, and clear guidance, you will be able to find your unconscious core "false truth," rewrite your story from a negative to a more positive one, and transform your life.
Once you have flipped the switch of insight, nothing can hold back the light that shines from within.
Here is the Table of Contents:
Chapter One : Understanding Why Change is hard
Chapter Two Recognizing Your False Truth
He lists the primary emotions to help us understand our past
They are Anger, Fear, and Sadness.
Anger: aggression, annoyance, bitterness, contempt, defensiveness, disgust, disrespect, envy, frustration, hate, hostility, irritation, jealousy, outrage, rage, resentment, revulsion
Fear: anxiety, avoidance, caution, concern, doubt, insecurity, intimidation, panic, stress, tension, terror, vulnerability, worry
Sadness: apathy, boredom, depression, despair, disappointment, disillusionment, embarrassment, grief, guilt, loneliness, need, regret, rejection, remorse, shame.
He asks: “Do any of these words jump out at you?” He says to circle them as they are guidelines into our early life and the decisions we made then.
I found myself circling words in all three categories, but most in the category of Sadness, which fits, since my presenting symptom in therapy all my life has been Depression and I have often felt despair, disappointment, disillusionment, embarrassment, grief, guilt, loneliness, need, regret, rejection, remorse, and shame.
Here is one of his exercises:
Find your dominant negative emotion.
“You have a story to tell. Deep down, you know it very well.
It is a story that explains the lion’s share of your distress in life.
What emotion is most familiar and most troubling to you?
Perhaps its fear or anger or feeling unwanted or rejected.
He asks you to visualize your hidden emotion,
the one you have buried deep in your past
and to welcome it in to your awareness.
What shape is it? What color?
Does it have a scent? Make a noise?
Slowly describe the feeling.
Double check to see that there isn’t an even more deeply held, more centrally important emotion lurking in the back of the room.
If you become aware of one, take hold of it and describe it.
Finally back out of the room, leaving the emotions behind,
and close the door.
Chapter Three: Tracing The False Truth’s Origins
Chapter Four: Reflecting On The Old Story
Chapter Five: Working Through The Old Story
Chapter Six: Building Your New Story
Chapter Seven: Testing The New Story
Chapter Eight: Making Change Stick
I’m only half way through the book now, but I find his comments, case histories and above all answering his questions about the childhood and adolescent origins of our stories and of our “false truths” that lead us to re-enact our early traumas and engage in addictions and acts of self-sabotage in adulthood very telling. In fact I have had very strong emotional reactions when reading Chapters Two Through Four. His analysis and observations really touched me; I could identify with the attitudes, behaviors and “false truths” he described in some of his case histories.
I feel like I have a lot of unprocessed, undigested material back there that needs to be dug into, analyzed and worked through. I was wondering what to write about. Now I know what I must tackle, working to find the hidden unconscious emotions behind the ones I can recall that came up as I reflected on my experiences of hurt, disappointment, rejection and other painful experiences.
It’s not enough to simply remember and record our early experiences, he says. We have to persevere regarding them going deeper and deeper to find the unconscious emotions like Fear and Shame which still govern our life scripts.
I found that his profile of the anxious person’s experience of romantic relationships characterized my relationships when I was in my 20s and 30s:
“For you, relationships tend to be sources of stress and worry, and yet when you’re single, you feel desperate to find a new partner. You tend to overlook or romanticize a partner’s flaws. He or she is like a fantasy figure more than an actual person, which causes problems when he or she fails to meet your unrealistic expectations. Although you long to feel close and intimate, you also fear that expressing your feelings will scare partners away. You believe that you are the one who loves more in the couple and are in constant anxiety about being left for someone better. If your needs aren’t met you become angry and upset and may shout or cry. Your partner might respond to the outburst with confusion not really sure what happened to set you off. Even if the relationship isn’t going well, you cling to it because any relationship is better than none. You are likely to be demanding, jealous, and insecure, behaviors that might bring about the end of the relationship. When its over, you say: “I knew he/she didn’t really love me."
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I would recommend this book to people who are willing to find doable steps to change their lives, know how their childhoods have impacted their current lives, and what they can do have a more hopeful and positive outlook on life.
Here are the awesome concepts/tools the author uses, and combines in his 'Insight Cure' (and he explains all of them with 'crib sheets' at the end of the book).
Addiction recovery therapy,
Attachment theory
Cognitive Behavior therapy
Control mastery theory
Narrative therapy
Positive psychology
Erikson's psychosocial development theory
Transtheoretical model
This is not a book you skim, put down, and convince yourself you 'already know all that'. If nothing else, it will give you new ways to look at and think about things, although following the suggestions and procedures over time is highly recommended.
The writer is human, and shows it. This is not dry academia, theoretical pie-in-the-sky rhetoric, or magical thinking. It's work, and it requires the ability to be honest with yourself, but it is well worth the results. Buy this one. Study it. Do what it takes. 5/5.